Why is it so difficult to say I love you at times or to be romantic, just for the sake of it? I don’t know if you’re like me, but I feel this insatiable urge to be hopelessly romantic yet i don’t always know how to express it in a way that feels right.
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Tuesday 26 April 2016
What To Do with That Dream...
“Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake” - Henry David Thoreau
Everybody has a dream.
Everybody has a dream.
Friday 26 December 2014
Faces at Nelson Sombodi's 2014 birthday bash.
Nelson Nseabasi had a day never compared to any other before December 18th,2014. Friends,family members and entertainment colleagues who were present confessed having a swell time. Artistes took turns to perform as everyone danced to tunes that scintillates with brilliance. The day had its grandeur as the pictures reveal more:
Ukpong Congress & Edu |
ELK & Ukpong |
fun time |
Goldenchyld & friend |
Kardynal & Nature Udoh |
LJ,Jay Razor,Miklow,Eti & Zillions |
Nse & Imoh |
Racheal with Celebrant |
Sammy & Wetinhappen |
Sir Jmaes & MC Godson |
Sleekee |
Wildflower |
Zillions |
Celebrant |
Monday 24 June 2013
Blissful union of Mr and Mrs Francis Bassey
May 25th,2013 will ever remain bodacious in the lives of Elsie Iwatt(now Mrs Elsie Francis Bassey) and Francis Bassey. The day finally came and the moment this love-birds did decided to formally recognised as man and woman. Guests throng the occassion with smiles all over their faces. The bride remained aghast while her groom was seen so gazed on her beautiful face one wonders if Francis actually saw the tears of joy that trickle down our blessed and graceful look. So kindly indulge:
Sunday 3 March 2013
"THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES" (PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS)
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It seems that a lot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.
Monday 4 February 2013
6 Kind Of Women Every Man Should Avoid
Saturday 2 February 2013
What To Do When Your Wife Is Disrespectful
There are two things in life that can make a man or break him.
The first is his choice of a wife. The second is his Job. Your choice in marriage can determine your happiness and how long you stand to live on earth.
Today we are going to focus on the difficulties that may arise at home when a man marries a wife that suddenly becomes disrespectful.
But first let’s talk about the prospect of living with a wife that is very respectful and deeply loves her husband.
If you have a woman you truly love and who does the same for you, your marriage becomes a bliss. You always look forward to going home to see your wife and child(ren).
And when you are going home, you get some gifts for your wife and the kids. As soon as you are home, your wife receives you with a warm embrace, plants a kiss on your lips and usher you to the bathroom to wash off the days’ ‘stickiness’. When you finish with your bath, a delicious meal is already waiting for you at the dinning table.
You finish consuming your Dinner with your wife and kid(s), you spent some time with your family watching TV and playing with them. Shortly, thereafter, you go to bed and your wife gives you a passionate and very intimate time in bed.
Feeling refreshed and full of life the next morning, you kiss your wife and kid(s) goodbye and go to work. It repeats itself every day.
And yes, there are certain times you may have a misunderstanding with your wife, but when it happens, it is resolved amicably and without a fight and without your kid(s) knowing you even have some problems.
Now why would you ALWAYS rush home from work everyday to meet your family? The answer is simple; Because your wife makes you happy.
This is a marriage many people are enjoying today.
However, what if you have a disrespectful wife who you find difficult to control, how do you handle her?
For instance, let’s say you are a young man married with a kid. Whenever you spend some time at home, you find out that your wife is always nagging, and quarrels with you over petty things. In fact she even insult you sometime and tries to dictate everything you do even with your own money. To worsen it, she doesn't like your family and friends.
If you have a marriage like that or something similar, then it’s time to work seriously on the marriage.
I will never advise a divorce for any troubled marriage except on the ground of adultery. Hence the root cause of the problem must be identified so that it can be attacked headlong.
Here is my possible advice for such a problem with a disrespectful wife.
1. Try to get your wife to talk to you so you can list down all the complaints she has against you.
2. Find out if there are areas you have been failing as a husband.
On the first note, when you list down her complaints, do not make any of her complaints trivial, take them serious. Ask yourself, “Why would my wife be so angry and hurt by this issue?” Try to understand her reasons for behaving in a certain way and be open minded when you do so.
If she is the type that do not like your family and friends, try to find out from her what/why exactly she doesn’t feel happy seeing them. Could it be that she is retaliating to a treatment received from these people, you need to find out.
Sometimes, a woman’s behavious in the area of the man’s family may be when she feels the family of the man is having more influence over her marriage than she is, and this can be attributed to the man when he starts taking and heeding the advice of his mother or any of his relative in the marriage.
As a man, you should understand that once you are married, your responsibility falls in your own family and you have to satisfy your wife. The needs of your relatives becomes secondary. That is why the Bible says that a man and wife are one – closer than the parents of the man and wife.
Secondly, find out if there are areas you have been inadvertently failing as a man. The best way to do this is by asking your wife. Create a friendly atmosphere to allow your wife discuss the issue no matter how embarrassing it may be, let her say her mind.
I guess the secret to having a successful marriage is frequent communication, bringing every nuances and misunderstanding to the marriage table everyday and resolving them without wasting time.
Truth is, a woman’s emotion is difficult, but if you understand them, you will have a wonderful marriage. That is why a friend of mine describes a W.I.F.E as meaning (Why Isn’t Forever Easy). Marriage can be a haven of joy and peace, but there are other factors that could contribute to a healthy relationship between a man and his wife. Here they are:
Same religion
Having the same budget
Congruent goals and plans
Creating time for relaxation and vacations
Making out time to spend with each other weekly.
If you are married, using the tips above will help you to have a measure of success in your marriage.
CULLED
Thursday 24 January 2013
Are Ini Edo And Stephanie Okereke Pregnant?
Fans have been speculating that Nollywood actresses, Ini Edo-Ehiagwina and Stephanie Linus are pregnant; no thanks to their conspicuously protruding stomachs.
The star actresses were spotted at Ibinabo Fiberisima‘s birthday party held in Lagos, recently.
‘I Was Raped Before I Turned 17′ – Foluke Daramola
Tuesday 22 January 2013
Who tells the biggest lies in relationships – men or women?
In a relationship, people more often than not tell lies for reasonably good reasons.
Read and drop your comments at the end.
Humble Apology
Swet Dim |
Swet Dim this is your touching words:
"Hey,am not happy with you,you just remember to wish me happy new year.Long time,i enjoy your write ups,it keeps me going.Thanks and miss ya my friend."
So share with me HAPPY NEW YEAR though a bit late.
Monday 14 January 2013
MAKING MARRIAGE WORK..
The three-strand cord is a picture of the power that takes place when two people agree for something in line with God's will for them.
THANK YOU...FROM US(ECLECTIC CREW)
Firstly, we at Eclecticxclusive use this opportunity to thank all who stood with us last year-read and appreciated our efforts. We wont forget those who cared enough to ask about our posts and those who commented too.We had to do some restructuring to serve all better this year. So don't be surprise at the new aspects you will see here as we intend to spread our tentacles.To that effect we will have new contributors,the duo of famous Prof Kalu Uka and Dr. Stephen Inegbe who are reputed in their endeavours. So this is our big THANK YOU.
Saturday 13 October 2012
Dealing With A Commitment Phobic Girlfriend
So you've met THE girl, or at least you think you have. She means the world to you.
She’s the most important person in your life. Her happiness is more important to you than your own.
Friday 5 October 2012
Chris Brown Leaves Karrueche for "Friendship" With Rihanna
Chris Brown released a statement revealing that he has officially broken up with his long-time girlfriend Karrueche Tran because he didn't want to cause her any pain over his friendship with Rihanna.
Monday 1 October 2012
No it aint Wig! Nicki Minaj Reveals Her Natural Hair
Since Nicki Minaj first blasted her way onto the mainstream scene, many have wondered what her natural hair really looks like under all of those wigs she's constantly wearing.
Saturday 22 September 2012
ISSUES THAT MATTER IN RELATIONSHIPS...
Thursday 20 September 2012
Kanye West Intents to Drop $1 Million on Kim's Birthday
Tuesday 18 September 2012
Wyclef Jean Reveals Affair with Lauryn Hill in Autobiography
Thursday 13 September 2012
....IMAGINE ME
This is the tenth secret I learnt from my millionaire friend which I was sharing with you before I digressed to allow me share some insight with you on how to read with profit.
Sunday 9 September 2012
BREAKING NEWS-Rihanna Kisses Chris Brown
It was a controversial night for RiRi. The first controversial event happened after she won the VMA for Video Of The Year. She walked off stage and right into the arms of Chris Brown. The two hugged and kissed for the first time since the incident. Rihanna confessed her love for CB last month in an interview with Oprah. Last night, she just put her words into action. International viewers can hit the break for a YouTube video of “The Kiss.”
Sunday 2 September 2012
How wicked and miserable married men can be.
When Social Media Network first came into existence everyone was happy as it came to solve a once nagging issue of communication. Yet man as usual has abused it all in a disguise of communicating.People have also become bad liars as a result of the use of the social media networks.
Thursday 30 August 2012
LESSONS TO LEARN FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS …
Wow,this publication will be the thirtieth and a month since we hit the first publication. We are amazed at the remarkable readership that by Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:06 AM our publication had reached the fifty city mark and by today we had 4,299 visitors to the blog-THE SKY IS OUR FOUNDATION.
Sunday 26 August 2012
...After a Bad Breakup
This is coming up as a follow up to a previous publication WHEN HE IS A CHEATER. Many a times after some misunderstanding that leads to a bad breakup a lot of ladies find it impossible to move on.
Friday 24 August 2012
BREAKING NEWS- Prezzo Dumps Wife For Goldie, Plans Wedding Soon.
Wednesday 22 August 2012
HOW BEST WOMEN WANT TO BE TREATED.
Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. Hence, the monarch offered him his freedom if he could answer a very difficult question.
King Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.
The question is, “What do women really want?”
King Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.
The question is, “What do women really want?”
Sunday 19 August 2012
WHEN HE IS A CHEATER!
Saturday 18 August 2012
7 Ways to (Really) Help a Friend in Need
Many times we find ourselves where we find difficult to respond to that person or friend who dearly needs us,read and please do your best to apply it and watch the miracle unfold.
Friday 17 August 2012
Dwight Howard and Ciara Rumored to Be Dating.
Wednesday 15 August 2012
Tuesday 14 August 2012
18 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR CRUSH LIKE YOU …
Many times we find ourselves messing it up that someday we cry and regret every wrong moves we made.At various situations,conditions,events and occasions we find this amazing looking person and wished so much that we day-dream about them.
Thursday 9 August 2012
A Very Heart Touching Story!!!
Wednesday 8 August 2012
WOMEN ARE WEAKER SEX!!! TRUE OR FALSE?
It is no more news that women all over the world are often regarded as the weaker sex by the male folks and even some females have come to accept the term and have often let men trample upon them just because they feel they are the ‘weaker’ sex and ‘after all it’s a man’s world’ they would say.
Saturday 4 August 2012
How A Woman Should Treat Her Man.
After a previous post THE LAWS OF KEEPING A WOMAN, I got complaints from guys that there wasn't a list for women. I support fairness and agreed!! So, I promptly got this list.
I believe this will be helpful.
Tuesday 31 July 2012
THE LAWS OF KEEPING A WOMAN
SHE DESEVRES THE BEST... |
I think and believe it’s safe to say that almost everyone on the planet has been hurt in a past relationship. If you haven’t yet, then you will at some point. Heart break happens. It will either be a personal relationship or a business partnership or a friendship. It’s not always in the love and relationship category, but many times it is.
Monday 30 July 2012
EVENT...UDUAK & KINGSLEY TIE THE KNOT
So was the trip to Etinan Local Government Area, an experience indeed, a visit to the land of a people off the Ibibio speaking stock. Etinan is located within the south-south (formerly known as south eastern part) of Nigeria and constitutes one of the Local Government Areas in the oil rich Akwa Ibom State.
ECLECTIC XCLUSIVE:WELCOME TO THE FUTURE
Eclectic children |
“Lord where do I start from is it when I was in my mother’s womb or when I was a toddler nor as a little girl in nursery, is it during my teens, then my youthful days in Uni. Is it during labour or now? All I want to say is thank you Lord for seeing me through Life's journey for being a Child to becoming a Woman, a Wife, a Mother, a Daughter, a Sister, a Cousin, Niece and a Friend to many of the most Amazing people. Above all for being your most LOVING CHILD. THANK YOU LORD. I'M HERE TODAY BECAUSE OF YOU. I'M WHO I AM BECAUSE OF YOU. AS LONG AS I LIVE I'LL SERVE ONLY YOU LORD. THANK YOU MY DEAR GOD.”
Doris Okpon Antiah July 29th, 2012
Doris Okpon Antiah July 29th, 2012
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